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		<title>The Bali Bucket List &#8211; Ava Wilde &#124; Book Review</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: The Bali Bucket ListAuthor: Ava WildePages: 484Genre: RomanceMy Rating: &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420; Buy this book on Amazon The Bali Bucket List Jasmine seems to have it all: a good job, a fianc&#233;, and a great life...</p>
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<p><strong>Title:</strong> The Bali Bucket List<br><strong>Author: </strong>Ava Wilde<br><strong>Pages:</strong> 484<br><strong>Genre: </strong>Romance<br><strong>My Rating: </strong>&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;</p>



<p>Buy this book on <a href="https://amzn.to/4dgdCC2" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Amazon">Amazon</a></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Bali Bucket List</h2>



<p>Jasmine seems to have it all: a good job, a fianc&eacute;, and a great life overall. But one night, everything changes when her fianc&eacute; suddenly dumps her. Left heartbroken and questioning everything, Jasmine realizes she has no idea who she truly is anymore.</p>



<p>Determined to rediscover herself, she books a trip to Bali. At the hostel where she&rsquo;s staying, she quickly meets a group of new friends. At the start of her journey, she creates a &ldquo;Bali Bucket List&rdquo; filled with experiences she wants to try, and she also decides to document her journey on a personal blog.</p>



<p>The longer Jasmine stays in Bali, the more new people she meets; and before long, three very different men become interested in her.</p>



<p>But when her anonymous sex blog suddenly goes viral and threatens to expose her identity, Jasmine is forced to confront the person she&rsquo;s become. Because sometimes, finding yourself is the only way to find the love you&rsquo;ve truly been searching for.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Review</h2>



<p>This book was available on NetGalley, and I was immediately drawn to the title and the cover. I was curious about what the story would be about because it sounded like something I would enjoy.</p>



<p>The book follows Jasmine, a woman who gets dumped three months before her wedding and decides to go on a journey of self-discovery. But her journey isn&rsquo;t easy. It&rsquo;s messy, and she makes a lot of mistakes and hurts people along the way. Jasmine tries so hard to become a different person that she (almost) loses herself in the process.</p>



<p>I really liked the storyline, and honestly, it felt different from most of the books I&rsquo;ve read over the past few years. Every time I thought Jasmine was going to do one thing, she surprised me by doing something completely different instead. There were several unexpected moments, and I always appreciate that in a story. This book wasn&rsquo;t predictable at all, which made it stand out. I wouldn&rsquo;t call it a typical romance novel, but in this case, that&rsquo;s actually a good thing.</p>



<p>One of the things I loved most about this book was the strong <em>Eat Pray Love</em> vibes. Eat Pray Love mixed with Bali created such an enjoyable vibe. Honestly, while reading, I started daydreaming about booking my own trip to Bali. I&rsquo;ve heard good things about Vipassana meditation retreats before, and this book captured exactly the kind of self-discovery journey I expected from that setting.</p>



<p>There were quite a few characters, but most of them were entertaining. I really disliked Dylan, the ex-fianc&eacute;, because he dumped Jasmine to be with another woman. I was honestly surprised that Jasmine stayed in contact with him and still considered him a possible option. I&rsquo;m not sure whether Jasmine was na&iuml;ve or simply very lost at that point in her life; probably a bit of both.</p>



<p>Jasmine definitely made choices that I personally would never make, although I <em>would</em> absolutely go to Bali for a Vipassana meditation retreat. </p>



<p>Overall, I really enjoyed this book. It was fun, empowering, and unexpectedly different, and I loved the <em>Eat Pray Love</em> / Bali vibe throughout the story. This was my first time reading a book by Ava Wilde, but I&rsquo;m definitely open to reading more of her work. I have a feeling she doesn&rsquo;t write typical romance novels, and I like that.</p><p>The post <a href="https://bettietoon.com/the-bali-bucket-list-ava-wilde-book-review/">The Bali Bucket List – Ava Wilde | Book Review</a> first appeared on <a href="https://bettietoon.com">A happy life</a>.</p><p>&lt;p&gt;The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://bettietoon.com/the-bali-bucket-list-ava-wilde-book-review/">The Bali Bucket List &#8211; Ava Wilde | Book Review</a> first appeared on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://bettietoon.com">A happy life</a>.&lt;/p&gt;</p>
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		<title>Why I Decided to Change My Life and Start Over</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I think I might have finally hit my quarter-life crisis. It happened not too long ago. I started thinking about my life, and I realized that this isn&#8217;t the life I wanted. Every day was...</p>
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<p>I think I might have finally hit my quarter-life crisis. It happened not too long ago. I started thinking about my life, and I realized that this isn&rsquo;t the life I wanted. Every day was exactly the same. I would wake up at 7, work from 9 until 7 or later, then come home, have dinner, read a little, and go back to bed at 10. I&rsquo;ve been living like this for years. I wasn&rsquo;t just living at all. I was just surviving. </p>



<p>I have to admit that this kind of routine isn&rsquo;t great if you want to have a social life. My social life is practically nonexistent. And it&rsquo;s not because my job is so amazing, it really isn&rsquo;t. It&rsquo;s just how I grew up. I was taught that I should do nothing because that was considered lazy.</p>



<p>But honestly, the moment I started reflecting on my life, I realized that I don&rsquo;t even like it that much. As I mentioned, my social life is gone, I&rsquo;m not the biggest fan of my job, and everything else just feels&hellip; meh. I understand that some unpleasant things are simply part of life. But I still have the power to make different decisions. I can choose myself: work fewer hours, rebuild my social life, and do all the things I&rsquo;ve always wanted to do.</p>



<p>That&rsquo;s why I decided to start posting on Substack again. I want to write about this journey of self-discovery and wanting to change my life. Another reason is that I think it would be fun to keep a diary of it all.</p>



<p>Sure, my life won&rsquo;t change overnight. But that doesn&rsquo;t mean I can&rsquo;t take the first step toward my dream life today. One of the things I definitely want to improve is reducing doomscrolling and getting better sleep.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you haven&#8217;t been feeling great because of depression and want to start feeling better. Or maybe you&#8217;re unhappy with your life, or simply want to become a better version of yourself. There are so...</p>
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<p>Maybe you haven&rsquo;t been feeling great because of depression and want to start feeling better. Or maybe you&rsquo;re unhappy with your life, or simply want to become a better version of yourself. There are so many reasons why people crave change.</p>



<p>Sometimes people just want to change their job or daily routine, while others want to completely transform every aspect of their lives. If you&rsquo;re reading this, you&rsquo;re probably one of them. In this blog post, I&rsquo;ll explain how to actually change your life.</p>



<p><strong>Note:</strong> Before I begin, I want to say that changing your life&mdash;or even just one habit&mdash;takes time, patience, and consistency. Don&rsquo;t expect success overnight. But if you truly want to change one or more aspects of your life, don&rsquo;t give up.</p>



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<li><strong>Find Out What You Want</strong><br>You know what your life looks like right now, but do you know what your dream life looks like? Without a clear vision, it&rsquo;s difficult to change because you don&rsquo;t know where you want to go. So take your time. Sit down somewhere without distractions and allow yourself to daydream a little. Write down everything that comes to mind:<br><br>&ndash; What kind of job do you want?<br>&ndash; What habits do you want to have?<br>&ndash; What do you want to do in your free time?<br>&ndash; What kind of relationship are you looking for?<br>&ndash; What kind of person do you want to become?<br><br>Ask yourself as many questions as possible so you can create your dream life on paper. You can use Pinterest for inspiration if you want, but honestly, I would recommend limiting social media during this process. You need to figure out what <em>you</em> truly want, not what other people think your life should look like. This is your life. Don&rsquo;t let others decide it for you. It&rsquo;s also important to write down the habits, routines, or situations that are no longer working for you.<br></li>



<li><strong>Create a Vision Board</strong><br>This next step is optional, but it can be a lot of fun. You can create a vision board by collecting photos, quotes, and words that represent the life you want and printing them out. Or you can make a digital version on Pinterest. You could even simply write your goals down on paper and place them somewhere you&rsquo;ll see every day. Vision boards work well because they serve as a daily reminder of your goals and the future you&rsquo;re working toward. Seeing your dreams regularly can help you stay motivated and focused, so make sure you put your vision board somewhere visible.<br></li>



<li><strong>Break Down Your Goals and Turn Them Into Daily Habits</strong><br>Big goals can feel overwhelming. Maybe you want to:<br><br>&ndash; Find a new job<br>&ndash; Earn a million euros<br>-Lose 30 kilos<br>&ndash; Start your own business<br><br>There&rsquo;s absolutely nothing wrong with setting big goals. In fact, dreaming big can be incredibly motivating. But the key is to break those goals down into smaller, manageable steps and create habits that support them.<br><br><strong>For example:</strong><br>&ndash; If you want to lose weight, you could start by going on a 10&ndash;30 minute walk after breakfast, lunch, or dinner.<br>&ndash; If you want a new job, challenge yourself to apply to one job every day.<br>&ndash; If you want to read more, start with just 10 pages a day.<br>&ndash; At first, these small habits may seem insignificant, but if you stay consistent, they can completely change your life over time.<br><br>One of the best ways to stick to new habits is to make them:<br>&ndash; Visible<br>&ndash; Easy<br>&ndash; Obvious<br>&ndash; Enjoyable<br><br>This idea is also discussed in Atomic Habits by James Clear.<br></li>



<li><strong>Change your Environment<br></strong>I&rsquo;m not saying you need to move to another country&mdash;unless that&rsquo;s one of your dreams. I mean changing your environment in a way that supports your new habits and makes it harder to fall back into old ones.<br><br>For example:<br>&ndash; If you want to reduce screen time, stop keeping your phone next to you all day.<br>&ndash; If you want to eat healthier, avoid filling your house with junk food.<br>&ndash; If you want to read more, leave books in visible places around your home.<br><br>Basically, you want to make your bad habits less visible and less convenient, while making your good habits easier to follow. Your environment has a much bigger impact on your behavior than you probably realize.<br></li>



<li><strong>Be Patient, but Don&rsquo;t Give Up</strong><br>Change is rarely easy in the beginning. Your body and mind are used to doing things on autopilot, and suddenly you&rsquo;re trying to create a completely different routine. That&rsquo;s why consistency matters so much. Even when it feels difficult, keep going. Eventually, your new habits will start to feel natural, and the healthier choices you&rsquo;re making now will become automatic. And remember: there was a reason you wanted to change in the first place. Do you really want to go back to the habits and lifestyle that made you unhappy?<br><br>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@priscilladupreez?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Priscilla Du Preez &#127464;&#127462;</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/woman-holding-pink-petaled-flower-4hwfLpG54eA?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Unsplash</a></li>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: ProtectAuthor: Paisley HopePublisher: SlowburnGenre: RomancePages: 416My Rating: &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420; Buy this book on Amazon Protect Rowan Kingsley has been through a lot over the past few years, including the loss of his best friend. His...</p>
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<p><strong>Title: </strong>Protect<br><strong>Author:</strong> Paisley Hope<br><strong>Publisher: </strong>Slowburn<br><strong>Genre:</strong> Romance<br><strong>Pages: </strong>416<br><strong>My Rating: </strong>&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;<br><br>Buy this book on <a href="https://amzn.to/4dnNhD2" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Amazon">Amazon</a></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Protect</h2>



<p>Rowan Kingsley has been through a lot over the past few years, including the loss of his best friend. His job as a hotshot firefighter isn&rsquo;t easy, but it&rsquo;s what he loves to do.</p>



<p>Now, Violette Taylor is back in town. Rowan dated Violette, the twin sister of his late best friend, when they were just 18 years old, and seeing her again brings back a flood of memories. But it&rsquo;s not just difficult for him. Being back in Sky Ridge isn&rsquo;t easy for Violette either; everything reminds her of her twin brother, who passed away years ago.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Review</h2>



<p>This is the second book in the <em>Sky Ridge Hotshots</em> series, which is written by three different authors, something I think is pretty cool. I really enjoyed the first book, <a href="https://bettietoon.com/fight-sloane-st-james-book-review/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Fight by Sloane St. James"><em>Fight</em> by Sloane St. James</a>, and I was excited to read this one as well. I was already somewhat familiar with Paisley Hope, since I recently read three of her books and absolutely devoured them.</p>



<p>The books I previously read by Paisley all had a cowboy theme, and for some reason, I&rsquo;m really enjoying cowboy romance stories. I&rsquo;m not entirely sure why I find cowboys so attractive, but I&rsquo;ve now discovered that I&rsquo;m also drawn to firefighter romances.<br><br>The main characters, Rowan and Violette, are great. They have a lot of chemistry, even though their breakup years ago was messy. They&rsquo;re still clearly attracted to each other, and you can really feel the tension between them. I especially liked Rowan because he&rsquo;s such a gentleman. The small things he does for Violette and her daughter completely melted my heart. The three of them together were just incredibly cute.</p>



<p>But this book isn&rsquo;t all sweetness. Early on, you get a clear sense of how dangerous Rowan&rsquo;s job as a firefighter really is. He even gets into an accident and ends up in the hospital with burns. I happened to read this book while there was a wildfire in my country, which made it hit even harder. It really made me realize how dangerous this job is, and I definitely have a lot more respect for firefighters now. This aspect of the story also added some action, which I really enjoyed. It wasn&rsquo;t all fluff and romance; I liked the balance between tension and love. I think that combination is my favorite, and it&rsquo;s probably why I&rsquo;d also enjoy romance stories about soldiers, even though I haven&rsquo;t read any yet.<br><br>The reason I&rsquo;m giving this book a 4/5 instead of a full 5/5 is that I usually reserve five-star ratings for books that make me laugh out loud, truly move me, or feel life-changing. This one came close, but not quite. Still, I can highly recommend both this book and the series.</p><p>The post <a href="https://bettietoon.com/protect-paisley-hope-book-review/">Protect – Paisley Hope | Book Review</a> first appeared on <a href="https://bettietoon.com">A happy life</a>.</p><p>&lt;p&gt;The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://bettietoon.com/protect-paisley-hope-book-review/">Protect &#8211; Paisley Hope | Book Review</a> first appeared on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://bettietoon.com">A happy life</a>.&lt;/p&gt;</p>
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		<title>In her Own League &#8211; Liz Tomforde &#124; Book Review</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: In her own leagueAuthor: Liz TomfordePublisher: Golden Boy PublishingGenre: RomancePages: 416My Rating: &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420; Buy this book on Amazon In her own league Reese Remmington is the first woman to own a baseball team, and...</p>
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<p><strong>Title:</strong> In her own league<br><strong>Author:</strong> Liz Tomforde<br><strong>Publisher:</strong> Golden Boy Publishing<br><strong>Genre:</strong> Romance<br><strong>Pages: </strong>416<br><strong>My Rating: </strong>&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;<br><br>Buy this book on <a href="https://amzn.to/4cotByE" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Amazon">Amazon</a></p>



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<p>Reese Remmington is the first woman to own a baseball team, and there is a lot of pressure to do everything right. She is more than qualified, but when you&rsquo;re a woman leading a men&rsquo;s sports team, all eyes are on you. She can&rsquo;t afford any distractions and has to stay fully focused on the team.</p>



<p>It doesn&rsquo;t help that the field manager, Emmett Montgomery, is a former All-Star turned coach who treats his players like family and the field like home. Everyone loves him. He&rsquo;s not happy that his new boss seems to be all about numbers and money and doesn&rsquo;t appear to care much about the team.</p>



<p>But after being forced to spend a lot of time together for work, Emmett realizes that she actually does care; she&rsquo;s just afraid of making mistakes. And slowly, the spark between them becomes harder and harder to resist.</p>



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<p>I&rsquo;m not always up to date with new releases, in the sense that I never really know which books are coming out in a year or even six months. So when I read the last book in <a href="https://bettietoon.com/?s=liz+tomforde#google_vignette" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="The Windy City series"><em>The Windy City</em> series</a> about Rio, I thought that was it. I assumed it would be the final book in the series.</p>



<p>And technically, it was. This book is more of a standalone, but I still see it as part of the series anyway. So I was wrong, and I&rsquo;m so happy that Liz Tomforde wrote this book.</p>



<p>The story is super cute, amazing, and uplifting. I&rsquo;m all for girl power, especially when a woman works in a highly male-dominated field, and she&rsquo;s the boss. How cool is that? I was definitely rooting for her and hating anyone who stood in her way or questioned her.</p>



<p>I understand why a lot of people thought she was cold, but she was just really focused on improving the team. She didn&rsquo;t want any distractions, which made her come across that way, even though she wasn&rsquo;t. So yeah, I really liked Reese.</p>



<p>And of course, I also liked Emmett. He appeared in the other books, and everyone already loves him. He&rsquo;s the field manager, but the team feels like his family, which I thought was really sweet.</p>



<p>In my opinion, this is one of my favorite books in <em>The Windy City</em> series. Okay, technically, it isn&rsquo;t part of the series according to Goodreads, but I&rsquo;m counting it anyway.</p>



<p>It had everything I needed: girl power, so much chemistry, and great banter. I was eating it up. I loved this story so much.</p>



<p>And suddenly&hellip; I had a crush on an older man. He was basically the perfect man in my opinion, supportive, uplifting, and her biggest fan. I loved that.</p>



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<p>It&rsquo;s the weekend, and you&rsquo;re fully enjoying your time off. You don&rsquo;t have to think about work; you can just do whatever you want. Then, suddenly, the realization creeps in on Sunday afternoon: you have to go back to work tomorrow. Just like that, you&rsquo;re no longer enjoying your weekend. Instead, you start to feel anxious and uneasy. All you want is to enjoy your time off.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">How to Beat the Sunday Scaries</h2>



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<li><strong>Stop treating Sunday like a countdown</strong><br>You try to enjoy your Sunday and your weekend, but your mind is probably counting down the hours of free time you have left. Most people focus on how little time remains instead of focusing on the positive side, how much you can still do and enjoy this Sunday. Try to live in the moment. Don&rsquo;t worry about tomorrow. You are living right now.<br></li>



<li><strong>Plan something fun on your Sunday</strong><br>When you have nothing planned for Sunday, your mind might wander and start thinking about how the weekend is almost over. So plan something fun for your Sunday afternoon or evening. This way, you distract yourself in a healthy way. Give your Sunday a highlight so it doesn&rsquo;t feel like a &ldquo;waiting room&rdquo; for the week.<br></li>



<li><strong>Limit doomscrolling</strong><br>Scrolling endlessly on Sunday afternoon is one of the fastest ways to trigger anxiety. You start comparing, overthinking, and overstimulating your brain right before a new week begins. Plus, you&rsquo;re wasting your precious time, because most likely, you don&rsquo;t even enjoy doomscrolling. Time also passes faster when you&rsquo;re scrolling, making it feel like your weekend disappears.<br></li>



<li><strong> Move your body</strong><br>If you&rsquo;re feeling anxious about going back to work, it&rsquo;s time to get out of your head and into your body. Go for a walk or a run. Join a sports team if that feels right for you. Try yoga if you want something more relaxing. Meditation can also help calm your mind when you&rsquo;re feeling anxious.<br></li>



<li><strong>Make your weekdays more fun</strong><br>Maybe you don&rsquo;t like your job, and you can&rsquo;t change that right now, and that&rsquo;s okay. But you can find ways to make your weekdays more enjoyable. Plan small things to look forward to. Go for a walk during your lunch break to get some fresh air and a change of environment. Or plan something fun after work, so your day doesn&rsquo;t feel like it&rsquo;s just about work. It doesn&rsquo;t have to be big; something simple like having dinner with a friend or cooking your favorite meal can already make a difference.<br></li>



<li><strong>6. Prioritize self-care on Sunday evening</strong><br>Be extra kind to yourself if you&rsquo;re feeling anxious and make time for self-care. Self-care doesn&rsquo;t always mean face masks or painting your nails; it means giving your mind and body what they need. It could be journaling and writing down your thoughts, listening to your favorite album, playing with your pet, doing breathing exercises, or stretching.</li>
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		<title>6 Reasons to Play Pokopia</title>
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<p>Two weeks ago, I got the game <a href="https://amzn.to/3OBsnXK" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title=""><em>Pokopia</em> </a>for my Switch 2, and I immediately started playing. Before that, I mostly played <em>Animal Crossing</em>, as it was my go-to cozy game. I&rsquo;m not even lying when I say I&rsquo;m addicted to <em>Pokopia</em>. I&rsquo;m completely obsessed and enjoying every single minute of it. So, if you&rsquo;re still not sure whether you should buy and play this game, I&rsquo;ll give you a few reasons.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Reasons to Play Pokopia</h2>



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<li><strong>It is super cozy</strong><br>I&rsquo;m the kind of person who loves cozy games. I grew up playing The Sims for hours, and now the only games I play are Hello Kitty Island Adventure, Animal Crossing, and Pokopia. I love walking around and completing small tasks that require almost no effort. I can just take it slow. If you love cozy games too, this is the perfect game for you. You can even play mini-games with your Pok&eacute;mon. You can jump rope with Bulbasaur or play hide-and-seek.<br></li>



<li><strong>Pok&eacute;mon</strong><br>If you love Pok&eacute;mon, you&rsquo;re going to love this game as well. I haven&rsquo;t found all the Pok&eacute;mon yet, but according to Google, there are over 300 Pok&eacute;mon you can discover across different areas. Some of them are super cute, while others have special abilities that they can teach you or use to help you.<br></li>



<li><strong>It is HUGE</strong><br>The moment I started playing Pokopia, I entered the first area and already thought it was big. It was much bigger than Animal Crossing. But then I started exploring, climbing mountains, and suddenly realized how massive it actually was, and that was only the beginning. Soon, you discover gates that lead to other areas, and those are just as big. I love how huge this world is.<br></li>



<li><strong>There is so much to do</strong><br>I&rsquo;ve only played for a couple of hours so far, and I&rsquo;m already a bit overwhelmed, in a good way, by how much there is to do. Of course, you have daily tasks, but at the beginning, you also follow a storyline and complete bigger objectives. You need to raise your environment level, but you can also demolish things and rebuild them. The options are endless, which means you can easily play this game for hours or even weeks without getting bored.<br></li>



<li><strong>You can build everything you want</strong><br>At the start, you can only do a few things, but the more you play and complete tasks, the more options unlock. You&rsquo;ll discover more recipes for paths and bricks that you can use to build roads and houses. You can create a beautiful home for your Ditto, your Pok&eacute;mon, or even build an entire town or city. The possibilities are basically endless.<br><br><strong>A lot more interaction than Animal Crossing</strong></li>



<li>Sometimes I felt like Animal Crossing was a bit limited when it came to conversations with villagers. But Pokopia feels very different. There&rsquo;s a lot more dialogue and interaction. Of course, I&rsquo;m still at the beginning and haven&rsquo;t completed the storyline yet, but my first impression is really positive.</li>
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		<title>Game Changer-  Rachel Reid &#124; Book Review</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: Game changersAuthor: Rachel ReidPublisher: Carina PressGenre: RomancePages: 400My Rating: &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;&#128420; Buy this book on Amazon Game Changer Scott Hunter is a famous ice hockey player, and he&#8217;s carrying a huge secret: he&#8217;s gay. He...</p>
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<p><strong>Title:</strong> Game changers<br><strong>Author: </strong>Rachel Reid<br><strong>Publisher: </strong>Carina Press<br><strong>Genre: </strong>Romance<br><strong>Pages:</strong> 400<br><strong>My Rating: </strong>&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;&#128420;</p>



<p>Buy this book on <a href="https://amzn.to/42mgS9C" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="Amazon">Amazon</a></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Game Changer</h2>



<p>Scott Hunter is a famous ice hockey player, and he&rsquo;s carrying a huge secret: he&rsquo;s gay. He tries to hide it from everyone, but that becomes harder when he meets Kip, a juice bar barista. Scott likes him from the moment they meet, and eventually they start spending time together at Scott&rsquo;s apartment. He can&rsquo;t risk anyone finding out he&rsquo;s gay. No one in the ice hockey world is openly gay, and he has to stay focused on his career.</p>



<p>But the more time they spend together, the harder it becomes to keep everything a secret, for both of them. Kip is openly gay, and he wants to spend time with his boyfriend in public. He wants to go to restaurants together. He wants to tell all his friends.</p>



<p>Kip is ready to go all in with Scott, but how much longer will he have to remain a secret?</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Review</h2>



<p>I had heard about <em>Heated Rivalry</em>, but for some reason, I decided to read the books first. Then I found out that the first book in the series isn&rsquo;t <em>Heated Rivalry</em>, but <em>Game Changer</em>. And if I&rsquo;m correct, the first season of the show is based on the second book. I want to read that one before watching it.</p>



<p>I have mixed feelings about this book, and like always, I like to start with the positives. It was extremely easy to read; you can fly right through it. I understand why it&rsquo;s so popular. The characters are likable enough. I liked Scott the most. I felt sorry for him because he felt like he couldn&rsquo;t truly be himself and had to hide his boyfriend.</p>



<p>I liked Kip a bit less because, after only two months, he was already pushing Scott to come out. While he understood Scott&rsquo;s struggles, he didn&rsquo;t want to be a secret anymore. I thought that felt a bit rushed; it had only been two months. Some straight couples don&rsquo;t even tell their friends they&rsquo;re dating at that point.</p>



<p>One thing I noticed is that the writing style felt almost like it was aimed at teenagers or young adults, while the content definitely isn&rsquo;t for that audience. I read that this was Rachel Reid&rsquo;s first book and that her later books are better written. I&rsquo;m not blaming her or anything; it&rsquo;s just something I picked up on.</p>



<p>Another thing I want to mention: there&rsquo;s a lot of spice in this book, like, a lot. I&rsquo;m not the biggest fan of that, especially when it feels like the plot takes a backseat to those scenes. I don&rsquo;t mind a little bit of spice, but when there are more spicy scenes than actual plot, it&rsquo;s just not for me. I read books for the story.</p>



<p>Overall, I gave it a 3 out of 5, which is decent. It wasn&rsquo;t bad, but it also wasn&rsquo;t a favorite. I&rsquo;m still planning to read the second book and then watch the show, I want to see what all the hype is about. People say it&rsquo;s really that good, so I&rsquo;m curious.</p>



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		<title>Reasons to Take the Myers-Briggs Test</title>
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<p>Many years ago, when I was still a student, I first heard about the Myers-Briggs test. It sounded really interesting, so I decided to take it. My result was INFP, and I still believe that fits me.</p>



<p>I hadn&rsquo;t thought about my personality type for a long time, but recently it&rsquo;s been on my mind again. I&rsquo;m at a point in my life where I&rsquo;m evaluating the things I&rsquo;ve been doing, whether they truly make me happy or if I should choose a different path instead. And in case you have never taken this test, I am giving you a couple of reasons to take the Myers-Briggs Test.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Reasons to Take the Myers-Briggs Test</h2>



<ol class="wp-block-list">
<li><strong>It Helps You Understand Yourself on a Deeper Level</strong><br>Finding out your personality type is one thing, but learning more about it opens up a whole new world. The Myers&ndash;Briggs Type Indicator connects patterns in the way you think, feel, and behave. It gives clarity to things that may have felt random before. When I read about my personality type, so many things suddenly made sense. You can also find a lot of information about your type, like which careers might suit you best, how you handle relationships, and what motivates you.</li>



<li><strong>You Start to See Your Strengths More Clearly</strong><br>Some people strive to be perfect, but that&rsquo;s impossible. No one will ever be perfect. So instead of constantly focusing on your weaknesses, maybe it&rsquo;s time to focus more on your strengths. For example, if your strength is creativity, find ways to explore and use it. If you&rsquo;re good at problem-solving, look for opportunities to apply that skill more often. When you focus on what you&rsquo;re naturally good at, everything feels a bit easier and more aligned.</li>



<li><strong>It Helps You Understand Other People</strong><br>Everyone is different, and this test doesn&rsquo;t just show how <em>you</em> think and behave; it also helps you understand others. Not everyone processes the world the same way. Some people make decisions based on logic and facts, while others rely more on feelings and values. If you know someone&rsquo;s personality type, you can learn more about how they see the world. This can improve communication, reduce misunderstandings, and help you connect with people on a deeper level.</li>



<li><strong>It Supports Personal Growth</strong><br>Once you recognize your patterns, you can actually start working with them instead of against them. For example, as an INFP, I&rsquo;ve often tried to create strict routines for myself. I would plan everything out and try to stick to it, but after a few days, I would always give up. I used to feel bad about that, like I was failing. But when I learned more about my personality type, I realized why. I naturally prefer flexibility and adaptability over strict structure. Understanding this helped me stop forcing myself into something that doesn&rsquo;t fit me. Instead, I now go with the flow more, and ironically, that has made me more productive.</li>



<li><strong>It Helps You Make Better Decisions</strong><br>When you truly understand who you are, what you value, what your strengths are, and how you naturally think, it becomes much easier to make decisions. For example, INFPs often make decisions based on what feels right to them rather than purely on facts. So instead of forcing themselves to think like more logical types, it can be more helpful for them to tune into their feelings and values. Other personality types may do the exact opposite, and that&rsquo;s okay. There&rsquo;s no one &ldquo;right&rdquo; way to make decisions.</li>



<li><strong>It Can Guide You (But Not Define You)</strong><br>The test isn&rsquo;t meant to tell you how to live your life. Just because your personality type suggests you might be a good lawyer doesn&rsquo;t mean you have to become one. Think of it as a guide, not a rulebook. It can help you understand yourself better, why you think the way you do, what you care about, and how you express yourself. For example, if your personality type leans toward creativity, you might explore ways to express yourself through art, writing, or other creative outlets. It doesn&rsquo;t have to turn into a career; it can simply be something that brings you joy.</li>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: RoommatesActors: Sadie Sandler, Chloe East, Aidan LangfordDirector: Chandler LevackWriters: Jimmy Fowlie, Ceara O&#8217;SullivanProducers: Tim Herlihy, Adam SandlerGenre: ComedyLength: 1 hour and 47 minutesMy Rating: &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;&#128420;&#128420; Roommates Devon has just graduated and is about to...</p>
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<p><strong>Title: </strong>Roommates<br><strong>Actors: </strong>Sadie Sandler, Chloe East, Aidan Langford<br><strong>Director: </strong>Chandler Levack<br><strong>Writers: </strong>Jimmy Fowlie, Ceara O&rsquo;Sullivan<br><strong>Producers:</strong> Tim Herlihy, Adam Sandler<br><strong>Genre: </strong>Comedy<br><strong>Length: </strong>1 hour and 47 minutes<br><strong>My Rating:</strong> &#10084;&#65039;&#10084;&#65039;&#128420;&#128420;&#128420;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Roommates</h2>



<p>Devon has just graduated and is about to start college. She&rsquo;s hopeful about this new chapter; maybe now she can finally make real friends. Devon has never felt like she truly belonged in a friend group, and she hopes that will change.</p>



<p>At an introduction event to meet other students, she tries really hard to make a new friend, but people think she&rsquo;s a bit weird. Then she meets Celeste, and they have a good time together. They even decide to become roommates.</p>



<p>But the friendship Devon imagined turns out to be nothing as she expected; it slowly turns into a war of passive aggression.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Review</h2>



<p>I&rsquo;m not even sure how to start this review. I was just bored and wanted to watch a movie, so I picked this one. I had zero expectations, although the trailer looked decent. But I ended up having a lot to say about it.</p>



<p>Let&rsquo;s start with the positives. I think <em>Roommates</em> definitely had potential. I didn&rsquo;t hate it, and some of the actors were good. The actress who plays Celeste did a solid job. I mean, the character is terrible, but she portrayed that really well.</p>



<p>However, Celeste isn&rsquo;t the only main character; there&rsquo;s also Devon. She&rsquo;s the shy, &ldquo;weird&rdquo; girl who has never really had friends, which was somewhat relatable. But I felt like Sadie Sandler (who plays Devon) was missing something. At first, her facial expressions felt a bit off, like she was in pain or something and for the rest of the movie, her performance was just&hellip; meh. I think what was missing was charisma.</p>



<p>And that brings me to my next point. I&rsquo;m okay with a &ldquo;nepo baby&rdquo; if they can actually act, but right now, I&rsquo;m not convinced Sadie Sandler is a strong actress. Especially when you realize that her father, Adam Sandler, produced this movie, it kind of feels like this project exists because she wants to act, and he&rsquo;s helping her. That said, I hope she proves me wrong. I usually give actors (and authors) several chances before I completely give up on them. Maybe it was the wrong movie or she just needs a little bit more experience.</p>



<p>Devon also develops a romantic interest in her TA, Michael, but there&rsquo;s basically zero chemistry between them. Honestly, it felt like she had more chemistry with her brother than with Michael.</p>



<p>Now, about the story. According to<a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt37540875/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title=" IMDb,"> IMDb,</a> this is supposed to be a comedy&hellip; but where? I didn&rsquo;t laugh once. I would describe it more as a coming-of-age story. The delivery robots felt completely pointless, and overall, the execution could have been much better.</p>



<p>The movie also has a &ldquo;story within a story&rdquo; structure. It follows two roommates who are constantly fighting, while Dr. Schilling tells them a story about Devon and Celeste. In my opinion, it would have been stronger if they had removed that outer storyline entirely. It didn&rsquo;t add much and just felt unnecessary.</p>



<p>So overall, I&rsquo;m not the biggest fan of this movie. I&rsquo;m giving it a 2.5 out of 5. I still think it had a lot of potential, but lately it feels like many movies have great ideas and very poor execution.</p>



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