Title: How to Kill a Guy in Ten Dates
Author: Shailee Thompson
Publisher: Gallery Books
Genre: Slasher Rom-com
Pages: 368
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Title: Big Bad Wolf
Author: Laurie Gilmore
Publisher: HarperCollins
Genre: Paranormal Romance
Pages: 384
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Big Bad Wolf

Ruby lives with her sister, Lena, in Maple Hollow. One night, on her way home, she is almost attacked by a wolf. But another wolf saves her life and gets hurt in the fight. Ruby decides to help the injured wolf.

The next day, the wolf is gone, but suddenly, Rafe appears. That’s how Ruby finds out that Rafe is a werewolf. Rafe feels the need to protect Ruby because he believes this won’t be the last attack.

Other wolves are after Lena because she has visions. But Lena’s visions are getting worse, and they are starting to affect her entire life. They need to find help or at least some answers so Lena isn’t exhausted all the time.

Review

I was so excited to read this book. I’m a big fan of the whole Dream Harbor book series by Laurie Gilmore, so I thought this was a completely new book series. But that’s not the case. This book was actually published before under a different title and author name. Just a little warning in case you want to read this book too. Luckily for me, I had never read the original.

The story started off somewhat interesting. Ruby finds out that Rafe is a werewolf, but she’s still interested in him. They have a connection, and I was curious to see where their relationship would go. Lena also has visions, but they’re getting worse. They have to help her and somehow make it easier for Lena to control these visions.

The first half of the book was sort of promising. But then we never got any answers about Lena’s visions or how to fix them. Nope, because the book ended with a major cliffhanger.

At the same time, I really didn’t like Rafe because he was annoying. One moment he was kissing Ruby, and then the next moment, he had to stay away from her because he wasn’t good enough for her. He was too dangerous. I once met a guy who was exactly like this, and it was exhausting. So, every time this happens in books, I get annoyed. I honestly couldn’t care less about Rafe.

Ruby was okay. At first, I was waiting for the Little Red Riding Hood reference. The cover makes it pretty clear that the story is somehow based on the fairy tale. Eventually, she started wearing this red cloak, so there it was.

Lena was another character, and she’s an adult, but somehow she needed a babysitter. I found that a little strange. I understand that she needed someone to take care of her, but calling that person a babysitter felt a bit weird to me.

Overall, I was clearly disappointed. It felt like nothing actually happened in this book. We never got any answers about Lena, and instead, we got a cliffhanger. It feels like this book was just an introduction to the story, but in this case, it was a 400-page introduction, which is crazy.

I wasn’t a fan, and I’m not even sure if I want to read the next book.

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I’ve been trying to reduce my screen time, but it’s not always easy. Especially on the weekends, when I have a lot of free time, I’m always getting the urge to scroll on my phone for hours, and honestly, I often give in. Which is exactly what I don’t want.

So, I started thinking about how I actually want to spend my weekends instead, and I sort of came up with the perfect no-doomscroll weekend plan. And in case you’re also struggling with reducing your screen time, I decided to share my perfect no-doomscroll weekend with you.

The Ultimate No-doom scroll Weekend

Slow mornings

I love a good slow start to my weekend. On weekdays, we get up, follow our morning routine, and work through our to-do lists. But on the weekends, I prefer a completely different routine and pace. Imagine waking up slowly and spending a little extra time in bed. Then, getting up, making your favorite breakfast, and actually taking the time to enjoy it. Maybe you’ll read a few chapters of the book you’re currently reading. Just really enjoy the peaceful and quiet morning without feeling like you have to rush anywhere. Eventually, I’ll start getting ready for the day, but there’s no need to rush. I just want to enjoy those slow weekend mornings and give myself some time to relax before the day really begins.

Walk

Then, once I’m ready for the day and wearing my favorite comfortable outfit, I’d go out for a morning walk. Just getting some fresh air without rushing. I’d slowly walk through the neighborhood or nature and take my time. And, of course, I’d make some time to pet all the cats I see along the way. I prefer to walk in silence, but if listening to podcasts or music is your thing, then do that. I’d rather just look around me and observe what’s happening. I love people-watching and seeing what everyone else is doing with their weekends. I also prefer to leave my phone at home when I go for a walk. It makes it so much easier to be present and actually enjoy my surroundings without feeling the urge to check my phone every few minutes.

Thrift store or Book Store

Then I would become a little bit more active, but still keep things very relaxing and chill. I love going to thrift stores and bookstores because I always feel at peace when I’m there. I can just browse around without feeling like I have to buy anything. At the bookstore, I would look at all the beautiful book covers and search for new books to add to my TBR. At the thrift store, I always check out the physical media section, which is also a great replacement for scrolling on your phone. Maybe I’ll find a fun movie on DVD or a good book that I can read someday. There’s something really nice about taking your time and browsing without having a specific goal in mind.

Movie Night

I love watching movies, so a movie night is a must. Maybe I’ll watch an older movie from my own DVD collection or a new one on a streaming service. First, I’ll make sure I have enough snacks and drinks so I don’t have to get up from the couch during the movie. My phone will be in a different room because I definitely don’t want to be scrolling on my phone while I’m trying to watch a movie. Without my phone next to me, I can truly focus on and enjoy the movie without any distractions.

Baking

What is better than buying cookies from the supermarket? Making them yourself and eating them while they’re still warm and gooey. It’s such a fun and enjoyable activity, and it will definitely distract you from reaching for your phone. So, basically, it’s a win-win situation because you’re not doomscrolling, and you also end up with delicious cookies or whatever else you’re baking. Plus, your whole house will smell amazing—unless you burn everything, of course.

Cozy activities

And there are so many things you can do during an offline weekend. There are so many cozy hobbies that don’t require your phone. Puzzle books like Murdoku are a big hit these days, and I really enjoy doing them. There are also cute coloring books, board games, and 1,000+ piece puzzles. Or maybe you could simply do some more reading. And you can definitely invite your friends over for a cozy afternoon without your phones. Play some board games, bake something together, or just sit around and talk. Honestly, that sounds like the perfect afternoon to me.

Self-care & Self Love

And, of course, when you’re not scrolling, you’re saving a lot of time. That means you finally have time to start journaling, get some extra sleep, or maybe take a nice hot bath. Put on a face mask, paint your nails, or make some fun plans for the upcoming week.

There are so many little things you can do with that extra time, and they can make your weekend feel so much more relaxing and enjoyable.

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The Love Hypothesis

Olive’s best friend, Anh, is refusing to go on a date with Jeremy because Olive has a crush on him. But Olive wants Anh to be happy, so she tells her that she is already dating someone else and is completely over Jeremy. Of course, that’s a lie.

One night, Olive is supposed to be on a date with her new boyfriend, but Anh happens to be in the same lab building that night. Olive panics and kisses the first guy she sees, who happens to be Adam Carlsen, also known as Dr. Evil.

Then Adam proposes a deal: he’ll pretend to be her boyfriend. This way, Olive can show Anh that she is over Jeremy, while Adam can show the faculty that he is in a relationship and hopefully get the grant for his project.

Review

I read the book years ago, when it first came out. So, I still remember most of the story, but not all the details. I do remember that I loved this book. I thought it was cute. So, when they announced the movie, I was so excited. And last weekend, it was finally time to watch it.

I was kind of scared, if I’m being honest. Usually, when I watch a show or movie based on a book, I end up disappointed. I always think the book is way better. And yes, in this case, I also think the book is still better, but I also loved the movie.

The characters are both great, but they’re complete opposites. Olive is pure sunshine, while Adam is definitely not sunshine. Everyone else calls him Dr. Evil, and all of the students are scared of him. But together, they are just perfect. You can definitely tell that they bring out the best in each other. Adam becomes nicer to his students, while Olive starts opening up to other people and putting herself out there.

The story is still fun and cute. I love how awkward their relationship was in the beginning. It was so awkward and cringey to watch, but in a good way. It actually made me laugh because of how awkward it was. I really enjoyed it, especially the sunscreen scene. It was so awkward, but it also made the whole fake-dating situation feel more realistic. I mean, obviously it’s going to be awkward when you’re pretending to be in a relationship!

Seriously, the two hours flew by like it was nothing. I absolutely enjoyed every single moment of this movie. Well, there was one certain guy who deserved a punch or two. That part made me so sad, but I’m happy Olive stood up for herself. Adam did too when he found out what happened. That made for a very satisfying ending to the movie.

Overall, I had high expectations because of the book, and I was kind of scared that the movie would disappoint me. But that was totally unnecessary because the movie was so enjoyable and fun. It’s another great rom-com that was released this year, alongside Voicemails to Isabelle and One Night Only.

I have a feeling that rom-coms are finally making a comeback after years of mediocre rom-com movies, and I am absolutely here for it.

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Title: A Witch in Notting Hill
Author: Alexandra Paige
Publisher: Avon a
Genre: Romance
Pages: 352
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A Witch in Notting Hill

Review

I wasn’t sure what to expect from this book, so I went in pretty blind. The title sounded very fun, and the cover had so many fall vibes, which was exactly what I was looking for.

Honestly, I had a lot of fun reading this book. Willow is a famous actress, but she’s also a witch, and she accidentally turns her manager into a cat. So, Willow takes a break from acting and everything else to fix her mistake. In London, she meets Oliver, the owner of an occult bookstore. He doesn’t believe in witchy things at all, but he can’t deny that strange things seem to happen whenever Willow is around.

I liked all of the characters, not just Willow and Oliver. Oliver’s best friends were great too, and they loved helping Willow reverse the spell. There was a lot of chemistry between the two main characters, and it was honestly kind of cute. They spend a lot of time together, and I loved watching their relationship develop. She’s a witch, he’s a non-believer, and he’s a little grumpy. Of course, I was rooting for them to get together, but I was also rooting for Willow to successfully reverse the spell.

This story had the perfect witchy and fall vibes, and I loved it. These are exactly the kind of books I like: just a cute romance novel with cozy vibes. It was such a fun read. And it definitely reminded me of the movie Notting Hill. It has some of the same elements—she’s famous, he owns a bookstore, and they fall in love—but this book adds some extra witchy vibes to the story.

Overall, I really enjoyed this book. It was charming, cozy, and such a fun romance read. It’s the perfect book to read this fall if you also love witchy vibes. I enjoyed it so much that it kind of made me wish I were a witch too. I mean, it sounds pretty cool if you can use spells to fix anything!

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Title: Barbie: Dreamscape
Author: Alex Aster
Publisher: Mattel Press
Genre: Young Adult
Pages: 304
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Barbie Dreamscape

Barbie lives in Heartland and is basically the perfect student. During graduation, you get to hear your fate, meaning you find out what kind of job or future you’re going to have. But when it’s Barbie’s turn, nothing happens. She is fateless.

Of course, she isn’t happy about this. She is the only one without a job or a clear future. So, she decides to find the Fates and maybe convince them to change their minds. She goes on a long, crazy, fun, and sometimes dangerous adventure. Along the way, she slowly discovers more and more about her mom and, ultimately, herself.

Review

I saw this book suddenly everywhere on social media, and it piqued my interest. I mean, the cover is absolutely stunning, and I thought I would make my inner child happy and read this book. I had absolutely no idea what to expect.

Honestly, I didn’t hate the story. I mean, it’s not the best story I’ve ever read. It’s just okay, but I still had a lot of fun reading it. My inner child was definitely happy while reading this book. I played with a lot of Barbies growing up, so reading about Barbie was pretty cool.

After Barbie finds out that she is fateless, she goes through a lot and decides to go on an adventure. She has to get to Dreamland, but to get there, she has to travel through several other lands first. And they are all crazy, fun, and interesting. A lot of interesting things happen along the way.

Barbie doesn’t have a lot of personality at first, since she basically only wears pink because her mother loved the color. But I think this adventure was really good for her. She finally gets to know herself and discovers the truth about her mom and herself.

I also thought there were a couple of beautiful messages in this book, such as there is light in the darkness and you are never too old to play. But my favorite one was: rock bottom is a pretty solid place to start a new life. It shows that life isn’t perfect, but just because you’re feeling bad right now doesn’t mean it has to stay that way forever.

But I also want to say that, even though this book was marketed as Young Adult, I would say it’s more of a book written for younger teens. The writing style wasn’t my favorite. It didn’t bother me that much, but it might be a dealbreaker for you.

Overall, I still enjoyed reading this book. I thought it was a fun and magical read, and I flew through it pretty quickly.

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I think fall is the perfect time to reflect and see if there’s anything you want to change in your life. I did that recently, and I realized one thing: I’m always rushing. I’m never really slowing down, not even on the weekends. And I think it’s time to change that.

I think it’s time to slow down this fall and create a healthier, more balanced lifestyle for myself. In this blog post, I’m sharing the ways I’m slowing down this fall.

Ways I am slowing down

1. Spending more evenings at home

Honestly, I’m the kind of person who already enjoys being at home, but I want to be more intentional about it. I want to make my home feel extra cozy. I’m adding some pillows, blankets, and candles, and then I can simply sit down and read a book or two. I’m not staying home just to watch movies or TV shows all day. Instead, I’m creating a safe and cozy space where I can relax after a long day or a busy week.

Sometimes, I’m the kind of person who feels like she has to be productive all the time. But there needs to be balance in your life. So, I’m basically forcing myself to slow down and give myself permission to relax without feeling guilty about it.

2. Taking my time in the mornings

They always say that the way you start your day sets the tone for the rest of the day. I know a lot of people will recognize this when I say that everything seems to go wrong when you have to rush through your morning. So, instead of rushing through my morning routine, I’m going to do things completely differently this fall.

I’m actually going to slow down and take the time to enjoy a cup of tea in the morning. And instead of looking at any screens, I’m just going to sit down and maybe read a chapter or two of my book. I’m also going to take a few minutes to do some breathing exercises and meditate. I want to start my days feeling calm and relaxed instead of immediately feeling like I have to rush into everything.

3. Going on more walks

It’s something I’ve been doing for the last two months now, and it feels great to start my mornings with a morning walk. It’s so relaxing, and it’s nice to get some fresh air after sleeping for a couple of hours. It helps you slow down, and it’s also beautiful to notice all the little things around you before the rest of the neighborhood wakes up.

And I love walking during the fall because it’s not too hot but also not too cold. Sure, it might rain, but raincoats and umbrellas exist for a reason.

4. Cooking more slowly and simply

One thing I always do is not take enough time for my meals. I just throw something together and then eat so quickly that I finish the whole meal before you can even blink. It’s not healthy, and it’s not very enjoyable either. I don’t hate cooking—in fact, I kind of love it—but for some reason, I’m always rushing.

I want to be more mindful when I’m making my meals and maybe even try some new recipes. I want to enjoy the whole process instead of thinking of cooking as just another task I need to get through. I want to slow down, actually enjoy preparing my food, and take the time to sit down and enjoy my meals too.

5. Reading instead of scrolling

Doomscrolling is something I’m very familiar with, and I hate it. It’s so interesting how I keep scrolling when I would much rather read a book instead. It’s just so addictive. But I’m trying to break that habit, and instead, I want to have more time for myself and slow down.

Seriously, when you stop scrolling on your phone, you’ll realize how much time you actually have. You’ve just been wasting so much of it on your phone. I don’t hate social media, but you need to be more mindful of how you use it before it starts using you.

6. Leaving more space in my calendar

My workdays are always planned out until I basically go to bed, and even on the weekends, I constantly make plans. Every Saturday, I make sure I have something to do, and honestly, I don’t remember the last time I just stayed home on a Saturday. I want to do that more often.

Maybe I’ll go outside for a walk, then come home, make myself a cup of tea, and read for a little while. I don’t always have to be somewhere or do something. I want to make more time to do nothing, simply relax, and slow down.

7. Paying more attention to the little things

Maybe you can relate to this, but when you’re always busy and rushing through your days, you miss a lot of beautiful moments. I’ve had days when I was doing nothing, and suddenly, I started noticing all those little beautiful things around me. I also started to enjoy the present moment a little more.

It’s kind of sad when I think about it. I was always rushing around and so focused on getting things done that I missed so many of those beautiful little moments that make life amazing.

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Title: Autumn at the Cat Café
Author: Kathleen Fuller
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
Genre: Romance
Pages: 304
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Autumn at the Cat Café

Via Dalton is the proud owner of a cat café in Pecan Corner. Her neighbor, Earl Brewster, owns Second Chapter Books, and the two of them are close. When Earl passes away, Via expects to inherit the bookstore because Earl had promised it to her. Unfortunately, he forgot to update his will before his death.

Instead, the bookstore goes to his nephew, Leo, a wealthy hedge fund manager from LA. Leo has no intention of keeping the store. He wants to sell it and move on with his life. He didn’t even know Earl very well.

But there’s a catch. The will has a few stipulations, and Leo has to stay in Pecan Corner for 30 days before he can receive his inheritance. Slowly, he starts to grow more fond of the charming little town, and of his neighbor, Via.

Review

It’s September, and the weather literally said it’s time for fall. So, obviously, I got into the fall vibes, and this book was screaming at me. I mean, I love cats, so a book about a cat café? I’m sold. I’m a very simple woman in that sense.

And you can bet that I was immediately romanticizing the small-town vibes and the idea of owning a cat café and a bookstore. This was the perfect book to start the fall season with. It literally has everything I wanted: romance, cats, lots of chemistry, small-town vibes, and fall vibes. It was honestly perfection.

The main characters, Via and Leo, were extremely likable. I loved them together. The chemistry between the two of them was off the charts. Sure, they’ve had terrible relationships in the past, their lives aren’t perfect, and they make mistakes, but who doesn’t? The romance (and the heartbreak) made me feel so many things. I loved it.

And Via’s cat, Sir Meow, is just adorable. He immediately falls in love with Leo, which was absolutely adorable. The other cats also play their part, and it honestly melted my heart. It was so cute.

The story never got boring. There were constantly sparks between the two of them. As you can tell, I fell in love with this book and all of the characters. Via has a fall bucket list, which gave the book the perfect fall vibes for those cloudy and rainy days. And I kind of want to create a fall bucket list now too.

Honestly, there wasn’t a single thing I didn’t like about this book. I could keep this review very short and simply tell you that I loved this book. If you’re looking for a cozy and romantic story with cats, this is the one.

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I’ve been trying to drastically reduce my screen time. Basically, I am now allowing myself to use my phone only when it’s necessary. This means I suddenly have a lot more free time, which is obviously great. But it can also happen that you get extremely bored. When you’re so used to scrolling on your phone and suddenly stop doing it, you might have no idea what to do instead.

So, I made myself an Anti-Doomscroll Menu. And since I’m sure I’m not the only one who is trying to reduce their screen time, I’m going to share my list with you.

The Anti-Doomscroll Menu

Cozy Vibes

• Watch a movie: Pick a movie you love, grab some snacks, and settle in for a cozy movie night.
• Read a book: Get comfortable with a good book and let yourself escape into another world for a while.
• Take a nap: Get under a cozy blanket, set an alarm if you need to, and give yourself permission to rest.
• Make hot chocolate or tea: Make your favorite warm drink, add some extra toppings if you want, and enjoy it slowly.
• Have a cozy breakfast: Make a delicious breakfast, grab your favorite drink, and take your time enjoying a slow morning.
• Light a candle: Light your favorite candle and enjoy the warm glow and cozy atmosphere it creates.
• Get cozy under a blanket: Grab your softest blanket, get comfortable on the couch, and simply enjoy some quiet time.
• Listen to an album from start to finish: Put your phone away, press play, and enjoy the entire album without skipping any songs.
• Rewatch a comfort show: Put on an episode of your favorite comfort show and enjoy that familiar feeling of watching something you already love.
• Have an early night: Get into bed a little earlier than usual, put your phone away, and give yourself a relaxing evening before going to sleep.

Creative Vibes

• Color: Pick up your favorite coloring book or some colored pencils and spend some time coloring without worrying about being perfect.
• Journal: Write down your thoughts, feelings, ideas, or anything else that’s on your mind.
• Draw or paint: Get creative and draw or paint whatever comes to mind, even if you don’t consider yourself artistic.
• Bake something: Pick a delicious recipe, spend some time baking, and enjoy the amazing smell while you wait for your treats.
• Try a new recipe: Find a recipe you’ve never made before and have fun experimenting in the kitchen.
• Make a playlist: Create a playlist filled with your favorite songs or make one for a specific mood, season, or activity.
• Do something crafty: Get out your craft supplies and make something cute, fun, or completely random.
• Take photos: Grab your camera or phone and go around taking photos of little things that catch your eye.
• Write something: Write a short story, a poem, a blog post, or simply put your imagination onto paper.
• Start a little DIY project: Pick a small project you’ve been wanting to try and spend a cozy afternoon making something yourself.
• Make a vision board: Collect pictures, quotes, and ideas that represent the life you want and create your own little vision board.
• Try a new hobby: Pick something you’ve always wanted to try and give yourself some time to see if you enjoy it.

Fun vibes

• Do a puzzle: Pick a puzzle you like and spend some quiet time putting all the pieces together.
• Play a board game: Choose one of your favorite board games and enjoy a little friendly competition.
• Do a crossword: Challenge your brain with a crossword puzzle and see how many clues you can figure out.
• Play cards: Grab a deck of cards and play a classic card game by yourself or with someone else.
• Build something: Get creative and build something with LEGO, a model kit, or whatever you have at home.
• Do a quiz: Find a fun quiz online or grab a trivia book and see how much you know.
• Learn something random: Pick a completely random topic that interests you and spend some time learning about it.
• Organize your bookshelf: Rearrange your books, organize them by genre or color, and rediscover some old favorites.
• Make a bucket list: Write down all the things you’d love to do, places you want to visit, and experiences you want to have.
• Try something you’ve never done before: Pick something new and exciting, even if it’s just a small activity you’ve never tried before.

Reset Vibes

• Have an at-home spa day: Turn your home into a little spa, light some candles, put on relaxing music, and spend the day pampering yourself.
• Take a long shower or bath: Take your time, use your favorite shower products, and enjoy a long, relaxing shower or bath.
• Do a face mask: Put on your favorite face mask and take some time to relax while it does its thing.
• Wash your hair and use a hair mask: Give your hair some extra love and turn your hair-washing routine into a little self-care ritual.
• Change your bedsheets: Put on some fresh, clean bedsheets and enjoy that amazing feeling of getting into a freshly made bed.
• Declutter one drawer: Pick one drawer and get rid of anything you no longer need or use.
• Clean your room: Put on some music and give your room a good clean so you can enjoy a fresh and tidy space.
• Decorate your room: Add some new decorations, candles, flowers, or anything else that makes your space feel more like you.
• Rearrange your space: Move some furniture around or change things up to give your room a completely different feel.
• Do your nails: Give yourself a little manicure or paint your nails in a color you love.
• Put on your comfiest clothes: Get into your softest pajamas, sweatpants, or favorite cozy outfit and get comfortable.
• Have a slow morning: Don’t rush out of bed; take your time, make a nice breakfast, enjoy your coffee, and ease into the day.

Go outside Vibes

• Go for a long walk: Take your time, enjoy the fresh air, and let yourself wander without worrying about getting anywhere quickly.
• Explore somewhere new: Visit a neighborhood, town, park, or little spot you’ve never been to before and see what you discover.
• Visit a bookstore: Take your time browsing the shelves, discover new books, and maybe treat yourself to a new read.
• Go to a café: Find a cozy café, order your favorite drink, and enjoy some quiet time by yourself or with a friend.
• Go thrifting: Browse through thrift stores and see if you can find some unique clothes, home décor, or little treasures.
• Visit a farmers’ market: Walk around the stalls, discover local products, and pick up something delicious to take home.
• Get a coffee to go: Grab your favorite coffee and take it with you while you go for a walk or explore somewhere.
• Go to a museum: Spend a few hours looking at art, learning something new, and enjoying a change of scenery.
• Take yourself on a little date: Get dressed up, go somewhere you love, and treat yourself as if you were taking someone else out.
• Go for a drive: Put on your favorite playlist, grab a drink, and go for a relaxing drive with no real destination in mind.
• Sit somewhere outside and people-watch: Find a nice spot, grab a drink, and simply watch the world go by for a while.

Friends/Family Vibes

• Have dinner with friends: Cook a delicious meal together, order your favorite food, or simply enjoy a cozy dinner and catch up.
• Call someone you haven’t spoken to in a while: Reach out to an old friend or family member and spend some time catching up.
• Have a sleepover: Stay up late talking, watching movies, eating snacks, and enjoying each other’s company.
• Bake with a friend: Pick a fun recipe, bake something delicious, and enjoy your homemade treats together.
• Cook dinner together: Choose a recipe you both want to try and turn cooking dinner into a fun activity.
• Have a movie night: Pick a few movies, grab some snacks, get cozy, and enjoy a relaxing night together.
• Play games together: Bring out your favorite board games or card games and have a little friendly competition.
• Go for a walk and talk: Take a relaxing walk together and use the time to catch up and talk about everything and nothing.
• Invite someone over: Have a friend over for coffee, dinner, a movie, or simply a cozy afternoon together.
• Have a phone-free hangout: Put your phones away and focus completely on spending quality time together.Foto door Polina

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Manifesting should be a fun process, and I think a lot of us who are trying to manifest certain things put too much pressure on ourselves. I have to admit that I do this sometimes too. Nobody is perfect. But I think life and manifestation should be a fun journey, and it can be. That’s why I created a manifestation game to help you create your dream life.

I’m not lying when I tell you that playing this game has helped me a lot. Every time I catch myself in a bad mood, I play this game, and within a short amount of time, I feel better. I can be a totally different person within an hour.

In this blog post, I’m explaining why this manifestation game could change your life and how to play it.

Why this manifestation game could change your life

If you’re familiar with manifesting, you know that thoughts create your reality. So, when you think about things you don’t like, you will attract more of that, and when you think about things you do like, you will create more of that in your life. Your feelings are simply showing you what you’ve been thinking. If you’re feeling good, then keep going. If you’re feeling negative emotions, then you’ve probably been thinking negative thoughts.

So, as soon as you notice that you’re having negative thoughts, you can start playing the manifestation game. But honestly, you can play it all the time if you want. It’s actually kind of fun to play! It’s going to put you in a better mood, which is always great. And you’ll start thinking about the things you like, which can then help you manifest more of those things into your life (depending on how often you do this).

What is the Manifestation Game

Step 1: Start Small

The first step is very easy. I would recommend taking a couple of deep breaths. This can already make you feel a little bit better. Then, instead of forcing yourself to think about your dream life and pretending that everything is perfect, start extremely small.

I like to start with things that I already have in my life. I start thinking about the little things I love. For example, how much I love my reading chair and how much I enjoy reading in that chair. Maybe I’ll name something I ate that day and really liked. Maybe I saw something pretty. I just start thinking about those things non-stop.

At first, it can be a little hard to get that positive momentum going, but after a while, it gets easier and easier to name the things you’re grateful for. What can also help boost your mood and build that positive momentum is thinking about why you love something.

For example: I love my reading chair so much because it’s so comfy. I feel so relaxed when I’m sitting in it, and I think the chair is so pretty.

Step 2: Dream big

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